flash from the past

The qualifications a man must have to call himself a leader, the responsibilities of leadership or headship of a household and family, and what a woman must demand of a man before she grants him the privilege of leading her and their family. Before he steps in front, are you sure he can even lead himself?

Educated accomplished Black men accuse Black women of not knowing how to choose a good Black man, and angrily wonder why Sistahs might choose a Pookie or a Lil' Man over them. This video explains how women choose a mate and the needs a woman seeks to have fulfilled in her romantic relationship. 

Soap nut shampoo is a low sudsing, 100% chemical free, 100% natural way to thoroughly but gently cleanse your hair and scalp without stripping off natural oils or drying out your natural hair. 

Since men complain constantly about child support payments and "being forced" to become a father, I suggested a novel birth control method called "keep it in your pants!" Didn't go over very well with the fellas...

Sistah Girl and her sister Vanessa discuss women that put their friends aside when they get a man, as well as women that have nothing going in their lives so they make getting or keeping a man their sole hobby. These women are boring to talk to, boring to be around, and boring to date. 

Relationship advice for black men on how to truly love and respect their woman. In this video a young man reviews the relationship mistakes he made which caused his woman to leave, and shares a newfound understanding with other black men so they can avoid making the same mistakes.

Black women are admonished for not "letting a man lead" or "emasculating" or "being the man" in dating relationships and marriages. Deborrah Cooper dissects the term "leadership" and the qualities a man must possess to earn the power and associated responsibilities with come with leadership roles. 

Women often struggle with establishing and maintaining boundaries. Video explains the benefits of setting boundaries with dating partners and spouses, children, coworkers and extended family. Boundaries teach others how to treat you, resulting in higher self esteem and renewed self respect!

Oh the difference in production quality from 2018 to 2021 is amazing. New cameras, lights, professional sound - just some of the improvements made over the years. The channel and our livestreams have become so much more polished. The questions, however, have not. From this to Tell it Tuesday to WTF!? TUESDAY which we've kept since.

Exploration of the common categories of lies  men tell women, why they tell them, and what women can do about it. How to decide if the lies your man tells qualify him as a manipulative, controlling bum you should eliminate from your life, or if putting in a bit of work to foster an environment which encourages him \to tell the whole truth all the time is best.